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writes:2months pregnant for a married man that played me for the fool i've been. am now 21 and he is 41, he has left his wife for not me but another woman with whom he is clearly in love with. i was there before her and he promise me the moon and stars but now he is in love with a more older and sophisticated woman to match his successful career. his family is all roses with this new woman and will never accept me because am black. please read my previous two questions and the responses i've received to learn the history of this situation. am begging you all for help!!!!. i couldn't leave him when i found out about this woman a year ago so now he has the strength to leave me.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 You poor, poor thing. Do you have anyone to love and help you? Is there anyone who you can talk to, and turn to? I so hope there is.
But at least you have the baby. If you love this man, which I'm sure you do, the pain of losing him will be erased by the joy of your growing baby. Try to focus your love on the baby, and cherish her or him in the way you know to be right. I hope you can sort out your financial and living situation so that you are supported and OK during your pregnancy and beyond. This man should at least support you materially. Go to a lawyer and ask how you go about getting him to do that.
Be strong, and love your child. That will bring you through this difficult time.
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reader, belize +, writes (1 May 2011):
 Oh dear! Your emotion is all over the place. You must decide if you're going to keep the baby. Sort things out first with your pregancy. Then thank God you had a lucky escape from this granddad who is a cradle snatcher. Colour has nothing to do with it.
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