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writes: Hiya! ive been going out with my boyfriend sort of on and off for the past 6 months.When we first started going out it was all a bit of a laugh, but recently he has been acting really strangely. I asked him what was goimg on and he actually proposed to me.He is nearly 18 and im only 15 and i want to go out and have fun, not be tied down but he loves me and i dont want to hurt him. What should i say to him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006):
Say NO!!!
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reader, scared16 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 jus talk 2 him. say u r thrilled he has asked you but ur not ready 2 make that sort of commitment. you need 2 make it clear that it doesn mean u love him ne less u wud jus prefer 2 wait till u r bit older x x x
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reader, sweetiegirl  +, writes (16 December 2006):
 wow hunny 15 is really young to be talking about getting married you need to tell your guy that your to young to be thinking about marriage, and the fact that you guys have been only together for about 6 months is areally to short of a time to determine that you want to even think about egagements. Just sit your boy friend down and talk to him tell him that you guys are still only young yet and you both need time to grow up abit more before you think about getting egaged, tell him that you do love him and that if you were older then you would say yes in a heart beat, but since you are so young it's just not the right thing to do right now, if he loves you enough to ask you ro marry him then he should understand that you both need alot more time.
hope that helps
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
You answered your own question. You're young, you still have years of fun ahead, with or without him. Besides the age question, you're definitely not ready to be tied down.
Say you're not old enough. Say your parents would not approve. And tell him you're not ready to be tied down.
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