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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HeyaSo I've been with my Bf for 3 months now and we've been sleeping together for a while. Recently he asked me if I had any fantasies or if there was any particular things that I wanted him to do to me or that I wanted to do to him. Problem is that I'm not very experienced, I've only had one sexual partner before him and I prefer not to think of that so I consider him my first, so I'm not too sure what's out there apart from what is basic knowledge.What i'm asking is if anyone could give me some interesting ideas that I may like to try with him (though nothing that anally penetrates him as he hates even the idea of it, has anything to do with pee of poop, nor, although I doubt any of the aunties or uncles on here will suggest it, threesomes).To give you an idea where we've already been we've already tried blow jobs, hand jobs, him going down on me, sexy lingerie, a little dom/sub and licking chocolate and whipped cream off each other.*Just in case some of you are concerned about the longevity of the relationship, i'm not asking this because I want to spice up our sex lives but because we want to find the boundaries that each of us have early on and to introduce new things into the relationship to keep it fresh.*Thanks in advance for your answers. xxx
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reader, hijacked_dignity  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 You could play games. Like one of you isn't allowed to touch the other and see how long it takes to break the rule before going at it like rabbits! lol Bondage is always awesome. Mixing up positions definitely helps a lot too. Don't forget to be on top every once in a while. ;) Ice cubes are good fun too, especially in the summer. Switching up locations such as in a car or on a counter or in the shower is an easy fix! Blindfolds, those sex games you can actually buy, and even porn works for other couples.
And I don't blame you on excluding the entire anal/threesome/human waste categories. =/ Those would totally be a cock-block. Haha. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Its always good trying new things with your partner.
1.Cosmopolitan is the sex bible go straight to the sex and relationship bit the tips and sex positions just everything helps.
2.Try wathing porn together might find some new tips.
3.New places apart from the bed and the house!
4.Having baths/showers together.
5.Talking dirty in the bedroom by txts emails phone calls etc
6.Dont go striaght into sex foreplay is amazing and good for exploring each others bodies.
7.karma sutra some positions are hard though!
8.ann summers try using toys on eachother..different kind of lubes etc
Hope ive helped!
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reader, Hesty +, writes (6 August 2009):
How about some simple role play?
Nothing kinky like family roleplay (ewwww, creepy! Lol) but stuff like sexy nurse and patient, or doctor and nurse (you could both dress up for that one!).
Or maybe something a little naughtier such as policeman and criminal or teacher and student. With these two you could perhaps incorporate some of the dom/sub stuff you've already tried.
Other than roleplay you could try phone sex. That can be quite hot.
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