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*ctoberwine
writes:I have been seeing this man for over 8 months now, and he still considers us friends, and yet we spend every weekend together, and it is great. Communication 98%, intimate encounters 2%. What do you think is the reason he doesn't take this friendship up a notch and say we are more then just friends? We never fight and get along 100%. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): You two need to talk. Find out exactly where this relationship is going. Point out to him just what you want and how you want it to go. Don't let him have all of the steering power and let him know how you feel.
Take care
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Dear octoberwine
I don’t know what his reasons may be as you didn’t give much in your post but I think what you need to do is to start telling him what you want in this “friendship”, communication is the key to anything, because he might be quite thinking you are okay with the arrangement if there was any. For your sake it is better to know where this is going and he is the only one who can tell you that. hope all goes well.
jovial
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reader, Psyche  +, writes (20 February 2007):
He has reservations. Probably nothing to do with you. But you may end up being disappointed with this guy. Good luck
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