A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im 16 and I really like this guy who is 19. I have liked him pretty much ever since I met him but I have never told him because I have always been too scared of rejection. Lately we have become good friends and we go for late night walks quite a bit, where we just talk about everything and anything. He often does things which make me think that he could like me too but I never know for sure... Many of my friends have told me to just "make the move" by leaning in to kiss him, but he is the shy type and I don't want to make the wrong impression or scare him off.I really want to be with him but Im not sure how to find out if he likes me back and how to make a move? Please help!
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Hey well im 16 to & i understand completely about what your going through.In my opinion i think your right about not doing what your friends said to do.Iv seen many of my friends make that move on a shy guy & it did screw things up a bit so dont do that.What you probably should do though is just be honest with him.When you two are having one of your regular convorsations,& when you think the moment is right,just come out with it & express that you have feelings for him.Also,make sure you kind of do it gently,slowly, & in a sweet way ya know?Trust me,it will be for the best.Plus the guy sounds like he likes you already so i dont think you have anything to worry about.
I hope i helped.
Good Luck : )
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Do it. Kiss him. Take the chance. Then you would know exactly where you stand with this guy. if it doesn't work you can go back to being friends. otherwise you can get exactly what you wanted for soooo long.
...............................
A
male
reader, xnickx  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 If there was something else you didnt know, but wanted to know, what would you do?
Its no different here. Just ask, or find out for yourself. Trust me, i understand what rejections all about. But if you dont get over it, you will always be left to wonder what could have been, which imo is much worse than getting rejected.
So if i were you, id either ask him in a very round about way how he feels about you, or actually, if i were you, id make the first move. I dont think you'll be disappointed ;)
Nick.
...............................
|
