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writes: Can sexual desire vanish without any cause?My husband doesn't want any sex with me, or look at me as a woman.He says ,he wants to stay with me, and he loves me. And he has no idea what went wrong .The doctor said he was ok.-What can I do to turn him on?-What ,if he will not change,can I stay with him with no sex?-What could be so wrong with him ,what changing him fundamentally?--Is it possible ,he really does not know,why?-Can someone keep a secret from himself?I feel so confused,, I just don't know what to do now.Please tell me what you think. thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): me and my boyfriend are exactly the same at the moment. we have sat down and spoke about it because you can't have a relationship without sex it plays a huge part in a relationship. maybe u should try new things, experiement more in the bedroom and just try to have fun finding new ways of pleasing one another x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): You wanna come see me? Just kidding. Well, judging by your age, I'm assuming he's in his 40's. I'm 41, and can say my libido isn't what it used to be all the time. It has alwyas peaked and valleyed, so maybe your hubby is in one of thos valleys. A lot of things can affect that, but when it switches off suddenly it is usually due to stress. Stress is a libido killer for most guys. If he wants to improve it (he should), he can have his testosterone level checked, and posibly phychotheraphy or counseling to get to the root of his stress. If he doesn't want to, or refuses, you have a bigger problem. He needs to be attentive to your needs. Most marriages fail because of a lack of what goes on in the marital bed. Don't be like me and think it will all get better because your love is strong and all that...fix it now or you will find yourself becoming a statistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Usually if the sex goes wrong in a relationship there is some underlying cause. Has anything bad happened, is he out of work, worried about debits, got some problem bothering him. You need to be able to talk about the whole relationship, not just sex.
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