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writes: My girl friend has no time for me. We don't live together, we barely see each other. Since she got a new job (which is volunteer btw), I don't want to tell her how I feel because she might think that she's letting me down and break up with me to save me from being depressed all the time.
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reader, kelly_ann +, writes (23 September 2005):
maybe your gf is just busy, i mean you should give her a chance and if she really loves u, u will be able to talk 2 het about it, if you think shes an understanding person. I not it might be her way of saying shes not interested anymore u have to talk to her bout it!
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (23 September 2005):
 Its obvoius that ur clinging on to the hope that she still loves you but by the looks of things, I reckon shes only with you in the physical, so to speak (well, coming to think of it, shes not even with u in the physical most of the time). Her hearts definitely not there. If it was, shed be the one wanting to spend more time. shed be nagging you to spend more time with her. So tell her what you feel. Tell her (be stern) that you're both either gonna work at this or call it quits. But be prepared, I got a feeling shes gonna choose the latter.
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reader, pops +, writes (23 September 2005):
She is breaking up with you. Get over it. Move on. Her loss, is how you have to look at it. But if you stay depressed, and can't function, then maybe she was right. Is that what you want to be in life? Then do something about it. Call her and tell her it is not working out between the two of you, and she should not expect you to call her again. Wish her well, hang up, and then go out and find someone else.
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