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I'm not attracted to my husband any more.

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Question - (2 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *ordem writes:

I've been with my husband for 5 yrs and I'm not attracted to him anymore and get angry being around him and he's a good person can you help me understand why I feel this way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007):

Do you have kids? If you do, then perhaps you resent him because you're left with all the housework and childcare.

Perhaps you've just outgrown him.

I've been married for 4 years and feel the same way. I'm left to do all the housework, cooking, childcare, laundry etc. and I'm exhausted. I can barely stay awake some days.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

well, you probably feel disgusted being with your husband and you probably want to experienced someone else. but you need to come in terms and appreciate your kindness and loving towards him.....

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (3 June 2007):

Rhythmandblues2 is right-on. you need to paint more of a word picture of what is going on in your five year marital relationship. Perhaps what hasn't been going on,to make you feel loved and cherished

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

Possibly your fear of intimacy...not enough information here to delve any deeper....if you want more advice, then dig a little deeper and give us some more detail.

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