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writes: I was with a my ex for about a year. We had our up's and downs together of course. I knew her for years and our families know each other as well. She was dating my friend for a while and we became very good friends. We ended up confessing our feelings for each other one day and since then we just hit it off. I treated her good in my eyes but of course I made my mistakes. I did all I could to make things work out, and when things were going good we were on top of the world together. We used to talk about our future together all the time. She even went as far as telling her friends that she wanted me to hurry up and propose to her. After a week of figetting about nothing but bs, she broke up with me one night over the phone. That was about a little more then a month a go. I have been going crazy ever since. A friend of mine tried to call her a couple days after we had broke up, to only find out her number had changed. She had changed her number a couple of times while we were together. I have not spoken to her since our break up and it hurts like crazy. I can't even call her on her cell if I wanted to. It bothers me so much. I tried everything to get my mind off her: vacations, other girls and I can't stop thinking of her. This is a girl who just a couple of months ago was so in love with me and me with her. What can I do? I'm going crazy without her. I can't even function without her. How can I win this girl back? I don't even have her cell number no more and she has not called me in a month? Is it a dead issue or is there still hope? We broke up before but never for this long and she didn't change her number on me. Did she change her number on me to help herself to move on cause it was just to hard on her, as I didn't bother her or anything. I never tried once to contact her. She knows if I wanted to I could easily find the new one. I need answers. Thank you, tjalbany
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (22 July 2006):
 Hey,
well you need to ask yourself WHY she broke up with you if she was so in love with you. Maybe she met someone else? Maybe she fell out of love with you?!
If she means that much to you then of course you keep trying - how would you feel later on if your friend told you she'd been waiting for you to call? Or that she'd been trying to bring herself to talk to you? Never give up on love.
If she broke up with you over the phone that may suggest that she can't bear doing it face to face. Which either means her face may give away why and she doesn't want you to know, or that it's too painful for her to say goodbye - meaning she still cares about you.
Keep Trying - I'm Right Behind You!!!
Hope you get her back! Show her what she's missing and tell her you want her - tell her how you feel,
All The Best!
Phoebe
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