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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Theres this boy at school whos 2 years older than me and i never really took any interest in him before but then about 4-5 months ago my mate told him that i fancied him which was a total lie, but i found it really embarrassing! For the next 2 months he was flirting with me a lot eg: putting his arm round me on the bus, stroking my hair, saying my name in a really flirty way every time he saw me.... ect, but then i started to think about him all the time, i got so stressed out about it that i just had to ask him out and guess what, big mistake! He said no, i was heartbroken! I got really badly depressed and i started listening to sad music all the time i had some time off school cause i was scared that some how he might find out how sad and pathetic i was, but then my other friend started lying to me and telling me that he had been talking about me and that he said 'yes' to going out with me, when the whole time i knew it was a lie! I don't talk to him cause im scared and i can't bear not to see him as it's the 6 week hols! What am i going to do? Im getting really depressed again! if anyones going to help me then you have to understand that he would never make fun of me but now hes got a girlfriend and i dont know what to do, ive never felt like this towards anyone before!Help!
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 ew, i'm not liking the sound of the older guy OR your lying friend. they both seem pretty manipulative, using people for their amusement! my advice is to distance yourself from them both!!
heartbreak is really tough, but everyone goes through it. just remind yourself of that on the hour if needed. when my boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, can you imagine what a wreck i was? looking back i'm slightly in awe i even made it through the next couple months.
but you will make it. we're strong! from experience, i can honestly tell you that moping around and crying does help in getting it out of your system, but in the end getting your life back together can be the greatest revenge.
so grab a tub of ben & jerry's and indulge for the next couple days. then go out, get a haircut, and get your little behind back to class! and every paper and test you ace, think about both of those "friends" and how you are going to have a much better life than they will. because smart, strong girls always come out on top and manipulating people's feelings always comes back full force karma-style.
and don't forget to thank whoever is up there watching out for you because you didn't actually date the loser!
good luck!
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reader, beauty344 +, writes (11 August 2008):
 The only than i can tell you sweetheart is to move on with yourself... your to young to be stressing anybody plus life's to short ....Stop getting depressed and go out with friends and family keep your self busy at all times .... plus you come first than anybody .. take care goodluck and always keep your head up
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