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writes:fed up with my life, Im always bored by it. My job I dont enjoy but I cant find the job I want- no1 is giving me the chance and its disheartening and Im starting to lose the mojo to keep looking for it. Lonely when I do come home, so I seem to end up drinking, by myself. Thinking everything is the same everyday- why bother ne more? Reply to this Question
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reader, Deema +, writes (25 May 2008):
 You sound like you need a life coach - someone who will point you in the right direction and give you some guidance to see where you are going in your life. If you want to mail me privately on here, I might be able to give you some advice. In the meantime, alcohol won't help. No one ever found the answer in the bottom of a bottle.
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reader, kittikat  +, writes (25 May 2008):
 Hi, this sounds all to familiar. This is how I ended up becoming alcohol dependant. I'm sober now, but it was a long, hard road. I'm not saying that you're there yet, but it's a deep, abysmal rut to get out of. I suggest seeking help, I know you don't want to hear that, but suicidal thoughts will creep in when you look around at the chaotic mess you call your life. I can't tell you what you need to feel better, but I do think you need help. Do you have any friends? It may not be the answer for all, I had lots, but I didn't want to deal with them. I just wanted to sit in my self-pity and hate myself. It was comfortable. Do you think that you might be there? As bad as your life seems, do you think you might keep it that way simply because it's easy? I don't know all of your problems, and we all deal with depression and unhappiness in a different way. Please get help. There are many places you could go. Anonymous chat lines, religious communities, etc... Keep trying with the job thing, you never know what tomorrow brings. I wish I had better advice for you, but it's a unique situation. Best of luck and please message me off line if you'd like to talk. Colleen.
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