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*eyla*
writes:Ok.. where do i start... I came out of a childhood relationship that lasted four years and was a very violent and aggressive person to be with, admitially i denied to all friends and family that i was being violently abused. One day i plucked up the courage and left him!! I met a new boyfreind recently and have been with him four months and i knew excatly what signs to look out for and its worked out very well, my question is..im pregnant by my new boyfriend and im 3 months gone im just scared that i wont be able to settle in well even though i should be counting my blessings!!!
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reader, Leyla* +, writes (13 March 2007):
Leyla* is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your helpful advice, i do love him dearly i have been taking it a day at a time and i havent really got many close friends as they all seem to interested that im mostly the advisor instead of the one recieving advice (abit like a relationship)!! this new kind of treatment is very weird and pleasing in many different ways im just worried that i may of rushed, considering i was in a four yr relationship and now ive only been in a four month relationship!! its a very short but have been really happy times
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Poor you it must have taken alot of courage to walk away from your old relationship. Well done. Now you are in a new relationship with a new baby on the way. You dont say if you are really in love with this new guy. If you are you should just take it one day at a time. There have been so many changes taking place in your life. I have read before that so many woment coming from a violent relationship to a loving one find it very hard to adjust. Give this relationship a chance look forward to your new baby and see what happens. Time is a great healer and i think you still are emotionally upset from your previous relationship. The best of luck and i hope it all works out for you, you deserve it.
Aunty t
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