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writes:I'm an average looking asian girl. I wouldn't call myself pretty, but I do have a good body. My boyfriend on the other hand is caucasian. He has blond hair and blue eyes and has very good looking facial feature. When I met him, he was about 30 pounds overweight. I can truly say I was attracted by him because of his personality and not his face/body. He is currently trying to loose weight. He is becoming more good looking and with a great body(which I am happy about), but yet, there are lots of girls who are starting to hit on him. He does tell me all about it, and I truely trust him he won't do anything behind me.I feel like I should start dressing more attractively and put on make-up just so I can present myself nicer. I'm used to be the prettier one, but now I feel like people might start wondering why would a good looking man be going out with an average looking girl? Can anyone suggest how I should deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): I am a model, I have spent my whole life prettying myself up to look good enough for men. I know this was a real waste of time as my not so pretty friends have all got the best men., and I am still on my own at 40.Being good looking is no guarantee that a man will stay faithful or be honest with you, be yourself and if he doesnt like you as you are. tough on him. If he wants to play about because he now thinks he's gods gift. let him. you can do better.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (13 March 2007):
You were there for him before all these girls and you shouldnt have to worry about changeing. Just because his bodys changed im sure his opinions of you havnt and i cant see him wanting you to change the way you dress just because he has lost weight. If it is really bothering you, you could always chat to your boyfriend about this.
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reader, confusedlover +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Well if he's becomming more and more good looking it could possibly be that you like him so much, he treats you right, appreciates you. People like that could be the ugliest but when you get to know them better you start to see them as more attractive. But if that's not the case, don't be upset. Just cause he looks good don't let that stop you from looking the hottest in the world. Try all the thngs you said. Look in front of the mirror, put some makeup on(not too much like a clown...lol.. I've seen it before) try some nice clothes, do up your hair, dance around and see if that new look is something you can enjoy. Think of yourself like a rose. When roses grow in a batch, just because one looks beautiful that doesn't stop the others from looking just as good. (well it may sound corny, but it's sorta true... right?..) So after all is said and done. Just cause he looks good then don't let that stop you from looking hot like Tila Nguyen!!!!!!
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