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30-35,
anonymous
writes:(moderators note: two questions in one)My blackheads just won't go away. Everybody tells me I'm pretty, but I'm sensitive about the blackheads. Lately it seems like I'll just have to live with them, because they aren't going anywhere. Do guys care if an otherwise attractive and smart girl has some blackheads?There’s this guy that I know on Myspace. I like him a lot; we talk almost every day and we’ve become pretty good friends. To be honest, I’ve developed a bit of a crush on him in the months we’ve been chatting. Lately I’ve gotten the vibe that he might be returning my feelings a little bit; he’s talked about meeting in person. I would like to do that, but there’s something that’s worrying me a little bit: he has a lot of female online friends, and he likes to constantly comment on their photos and tell them how beautiful and sexy they are. I know that there’s nothing wrong with him doing this, he is single, but it makes me feel insecure and I wonder: if he’s kind of flirting with me, what’s to say he’s not saying the same kind of thing to five other girls? But he is very attentive to me, we talk all the time and he’s called me “beautiful” just like them. Do I have any real reason to be jealous, or do I need to overlook the way he talks to these other girls?
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (6 June 2010):
Yes, he thinks you are pretty. Yes, he thinks the other girls are pretty.Yes, he likes talking to you. Yes, he likes talking to the other girls.He is flirting with you AND he is "saying the same kind of thing to five other girls." He notices your flaws but focuses on your strengths. Same with the other girls.He's about your age? A teenager? He's getting his practice in. You get yours in too, and don't waste time thinking about the other skanks.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 June 2010):
For the first question, guys won't care.
For the second, it seems like he's trying his luck with a lot of women. I'd suggest to you that this guy isn't really worth the time. You don't want to wind up getting used, which is very possible with a guy who treats a lot of women exactly the same way.
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