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writes:Hey guys :) It's been awhile since I posted here. I'm here to share about my jealousy when someone flirts with my lesbian partner :) Damn! She's a perfect butch. I love her with all my heart. I treat her like she's the only person in the whole wide world and luckily she did the same to me. She even bragged me to her other lesbian friends that I'm her girlfriend and that she's proud of me. I feel touch and love :* But guys when soneone flirts with her I tend to become ruthless and selfish. Heck! I even threatened that girl that if she lay or even flirts with my gf. Is that okay guys? Or am I being too cruel or very much possessive?Thank you and love you all : and * mwaahhh
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2018): I guess I'm being too harsh ehh. Looks like I owe someone an apology. Hate to do this but I need to set aside my pride. Thank you for your words guys. I really appreciate it :) At least now, I see sense. And next time, I'll try my best to keep my mouth shut and control my temper :)
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (22 September 2018):
 Too possessive. Too controlling. Too insecure. Possibly illegal. Too aggressive.
Jeez, OP. You should have grown out of handling things childishly. Young teens handle jealousy badly, but you're an adult now, so you need to allow your girlfriend to handle it.
For what it's worth, some flirting is harmless and isn't always because they are actually interested in your girlfriend. Either way, she can take care of it herself - it's not your job to say or do anything and you'll sabotage your relationship if you do.
Time to woman up, let your girlfriend decide if she's okay with mild flirting or not and not get so jealous that you behave badly.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 September 2018):
 You threatened a girl of what ?, of bodily harm ? Then it's not only too possessive,- it's foolish and a crime, you can go to jail for stuff like that.
Your GF is an adult, if she does not want people to flirt with her or hit on her SHE can stop them.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 September 2018):
 Have you considered that threatening someone for flirting with your GF can come off as insecure and controlling? Not as possessive?
And can't your GF tell off girls who gets a little to "chummy" with her?
Overall? It seems immature.
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