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writes: I'm 15 and I really like this girl (13) and my friends keep saying I'm in love but I'm not sure. The problem is she likes my cousin and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): In my opinion the best way to start any relashionships is to start with being friends. Think about things you want to ask her, recreations you want to do together, is she interested in the same hobbys as you? if not, would you like to know more about her hobbys etc. If you want to spend some time with her just do it. She probably aware that you interested in her already, so just be natural, and in order to be natural - be prepared. Think about possible topic for conversations with her, invite her to cinema, have a walk in park and if she will be interesting enough invite her somewhere again. She might be not what you think of her at all, or other way around. If she says no and won't go out with you -- ignore her! If you notice that while you ignoring her she forgets your cousin which is pretty likely - invite her again. And once you have any relashionships with her - friendship or more - never discuss it with any of your friends, its always brings gossips and troubles.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2005): thanks for the advice people ill try it out and see how it goes
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reader, cheeky_minx1987 +, writes (3 October 2005):
the only thing you can do is talk to her... do u feel u can confide in her? if so tell her u have feelings for this girl but u think she likes ur couson and just see what she says about it all.... its quite possible for someone to like more then one person at that age. itc ould all work out the way u want and if shes not interewtsed then hey there are plenty more fish in the sea!! :D
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reader, Ellis Mac +, writes (3 October 2005):
Some say a thought is the first step to making something real. Your mind is a very powerful tool, much more powerful than you realise now. We can create our ideal jobs, our ideal lifestyles, and our ideal relationships, with the power of our thoughts. The possibilites are endless.
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reader, AuntieChrissy +, writes (3 October 2005):
Let's be honest; she is a bit young for you. 13 is young for dating any wya, and at that age, two years is a big age gap. How old is your cousin? Does she like him, or does she really like him? If you date her, how will your cousin feel? Your best bet is to wait a year or at least 6 months. That way you will know what your affections really are. If she has drifted away from your cousin, and he wont be mad, go for it. Also, when she is 14, she will be easier with the age gap. Good Luck!
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (3 October 2005):
the question is does your cousin like her? if not maybe you should tell her you like her, i mean nothing to lose right? just the truth to gain. why not tell your cousin to tell her he is seriuosly not intrested in her then get in there and grab your chance to say look my cousin might not like you he must be crazy i like ya. if your cousin does like her then seriously keep out of it your only 15 your get over it! the way to a girls heart is by being sweet e.g flowers/cards/letters yep it sounds stupid but trust me it works you really like this girl then try everything you can.
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