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writes:Ok i'm in a real bind here. The girl i love is bi. How do i deal with this exactly? I mean i'm completely infatuated with her, not in a bad way. Honestly, how am i supposed to deal with this? I just don't know how this will work if our relationship goes anywhere. i.e. marriage. Reply to this Question
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reader, arandomguywholikesagirl +, writes (13 March 2010):
arandomguywholikesagirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay, i know i definitely seem judgmental in this part, but i'm starting to see that. And i'm trying to cope with that. I think she really does love me, and we have started dating, yeah, i know fast, i thought so too, but i am learning to try to stop being so fricken judgmental cuz it wouldn't help in the end. and, no, i don't have trust issues, it's just that i am really judgmental of people.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 In answer to your follow up, I think you're worrying about nothing.
Just because she's bisexual it doesn't mean she isn't capable of loving someone or committing to them. And just because she's bisexual it doesn't mean she's going to cheat on you with everyone she meets.
I think you have some misconceptions about bisexual people. They aren't attracted to everyone. Are you attracted to every single girl you meet? No. Bisexuals aren't attracted to every guy or girl they meet. I think you need to get over the idea that just because she's bi, she won't commit or truly like you. It's not true.
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reader, arandomguywholikesagirl +, writes (12 March 2010):
arandomguywholikesagirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i kinda messed up wit the age actually. i'm actually 18 lol. checked the wrong box. so i don't really think i'm too young to worry about it. and idk the only thing i really worry about is that if she doesn't really love me she just kinda likes me is that there's a lot of people she could go off with. even if she does love me, it's a lot of people i have to worry about.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 to be honest if your in a relationship with her and she is open minded about the fact that she is bi you need to find out how she truely feels for you.it shouldnt be a real issue if she loves you because then she wont look else where.my friend is bi and is going out with a guy but he still has trust in her and they both love each other the only thing you really have to worry about is not just the fact she could go off with another guy but she could go off with another girl i wouldnt let it get you down
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reader, veronika +, writes (12 March 2010):
Bisexual people can get married, just so you know.
Why do you think this is an issue? Bisexual people like men and women both, so I don't see why that should make you uncomfortable. If she likes you, she likes you. It shouldn't matter that she's bisexual.
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reader, x.xTwIRlyx.x +, writes (12 March 2010):
Lol.
it doesnt change who she is....
if she loves you then its all groovy!
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