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*abygiggles
writes:good day everyoneim in love with my boss i spent more time with him than my bf we do stay together but im more by my mom than by him i dn't know what to do plz help im madly in love with my boss and he with me i know its not right what im doing is the first time in my life that this happens to
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reader, babygiggles +, writes (1 February 2011):
babygiggles is verified as being by the original poster of the question i just thanx everyone for the answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): 'I answer every one' sorry I do not understand your answer.
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reader, babygiggles +, writes (26 January 2011):
babygiggles is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni answer every one
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reader, babygiggles +, writes (6 January 2011):
babygiggles is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank to all of you
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 It would only be wrong if your boss is married, or in a committed relationship with someone. Is he?
Otherwise, it could make for awkardness at work and with your colleagues, especially if it doesn't work out........
If your boss is married, you need to end it with him, immediately.
If not, and your prefer him to your boyfriend, you need to end the relationship with your bf.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Do what you think is right. Only you can know the answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Honesty in your relationships is the most important element - without honesty you don't have a real relationship.
You have to break off with one of them.
I'm assuming your boss knows about your boyfriend in which case he's just enjoying the attention and "benefits". If your boss really wanted you he'd want you to break with your boyfriend; I guess he doesn't as the current situation suits him.
Regarding your boyfriend, he doesn't deserve the betrayal so either break with your boss (and never tell him and make it up to him by being the best gf ever) or be truthful and start afresh as a single girl.
Tough but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): As per your previous post a few days ago, after your kissing session you broke off your engagement/marriage with your fiancé. Is this still the case? Does your (ex) fiancé know about your relationship with your boss.
So what happens now: you have now broken off your marriage plans, you say that your boss is also in love with you, you booth have been touchy feely . What is stopping your boss from officially asking you out?
How old is the boss? Will your/his family accept a relationship bet the two. How do u explain to your dumped fiancé that you are now with your boss?
You are still living with your fiancé so I am assuming you have not been truthful with him. Don't you think u owe him an explanation for causing so much of upheaval in his life.
You know you are going to cheat with your boss again so why not do the decent, honourable thing and end your 'relationship' for good. Move out and then pursue your boss. You are so wrong to do this but it will be worse as you get more involved with your boss.
My previous response was blocked to your previous post: I am curious, it is just you and your boss, so what type of work/industry is it? Do you get fair pay? Can you see only an affair or something more. You need to be careful bec most of the times the bosses just want to fool around and not commit at all. They just mess up their employees lives and do not let the subordinate into their private family life. They keep the roles clear. Will you be prepared for this.
My brother owns businesses and word has it that his wife 'caught' him kissing one of his lowly paid girls working for him. Needless to say this girl was out of a job. Just a rumour but all we know is that she is not around.
Just think about what I am saying. Your boss may not be like my brother but this is reality.
I think just to put your new post into perspective plse link your previous one to help the aunts understand what has been going on with your boss.
LoveGirl
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