A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us is going nowhere. This has been going on for a few months Now and i dont know what to do. How can i get him to ask me out? Or even think about it. And another random question is: Does kissing come naturally?
View related questions:
kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i've asked him out once before but nothing ever happens. But he's been trying hard to show me he likes me but that question i've been wanting him to ask me has never been asked yet. My friends and his friends have been pushing him and saying how if he doesnt do anything it will be too late. Is he really that shy??
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Ask him out or tell him straight up that you won't wait for him forever. Put him in a "take it or leave it" kind of situation. Don't waist any more of your time waiting for him to make a move. He is either too shy or not really interested. If he says no, that is a clear sign for you to move on, and start looking at other guys.
...............................
A
male
reader, kenny  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Maybe he is a little shy, or fearful of a rejection if he plucks up the courage, then you turn him down. Maybe he just needs a gentle shove in the right direction. Maybe you could suggest doing something that just involves the two of you, like a meal out, the cinema.
I think kissing does come naturally, when the two people really like each other, a romantic ambience also helps too.
Good luck
...............................
A
male
reader, TimmD +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Some guys are just shy or need a little pushing. Why don't you ask him out?
And as far as kissing goes, what exactly do you mean? Do you mean kissing technique? Or timing? (when to kiss someone)
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Ever heard the phrase "he's just not that into you"?
It doesn't make either of you a bad person or unattractive. Do you really want to go out with someone where you will always have to make the running? My advice is to move on and find someone who is into you.
Tough but fair
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Don't be waiting for him to ask you out why don't you ask him out instead? men like it when women are upfront and not beating around the bush
when it comes to kissing do what you think is right or what you like to be done to you but every one is different some prefer more tongue some prefer less tongue after a few kisses you should get it right or you could just ask what they like when they kiss its all about learning
good luck
...............................
|
