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writes:i hate my body.... i dont feel like a woman and im 20 i have small breats and i dont feel like i will ever truly saisfted my boyfreind.one because i feel i dont look like one with my breats size.two because he likes to watch porn and the females he picks are bigger than me he tells me he likes my body but does he really?i really hate the way i feel.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
He's not lying. He loves you to bits. The porn is nothing but a quick relax. Don't worry about it, but do ask for some reassurance from him if you're feeling a bit insecure.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 January 2010):
 LOL troubled to mutch oh man that was good lol wow a good laugh, the sound of her voice i never thought about that but man you really have a point, you do listen to it all the time but you in my experience it .just starts bluring togather into a blah blah blah.
Hey to the poster look your guy obviously asked you out for some reason, and before he knew anything about you he saw your basic physical profile so he must be attracted to you. Im a guy and honestly i wouldnt even attempt to approach a woman i wasnt physically attracted to i wouldnt matter ho many other amazing qualities unless maybe she was a princess or something i mean like an actuall princess not daddies little princes one with a tiara worth more then most peoples house.
Im just shallow like that, the thing you need to ask your self is why does it matter you have man he hasnt left you and he probably wont so whats the big deal. lol ive heard of this situation before and this woman actually did this exercise where she looked at her breast in the mirror held them in her hand and said i love my breast and she did it a couple times she said she did it every morning her therapist told her to do, cant remember what i was watching or why but hey i dont object to watching breast big small or inbetween
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): First, all guys watch porn, and it's NOT real and we don't lust after then actresses in it. My wife has small breasts which I love! because they are attached to her. I do not love a pair of tits that happen to be attached to my wife.
Don't treat your breasts as objects... they're not. They are part of you and your human. If you don't like your breasts, start saving $25 a week (open a savings account and do any automatic withdrawal) and find a plastic surgeon who in a few years will give you a pair of knockers the size of grapefruit.
Relax and learn to love yourself the way he probably already does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): I think he really does like your body. Maybe you should stop watching porn movies together with him when it makes you uncomfortable, or you could pick the porn for him instead so that he watches something you are comfortable with. I don't know why you know what he watches unless you are watching it with him or he is so comfortable with you that he shows you, but both options tell me he thinks highly of you and likes the way you look.
On the other hand, if you can't trust him, and he isn't giving you the right vibes, all there is to do is leave and find another man who hopefully will make you feel more gorgeous and make you believe it. Chances are though that you wont believe it no matter who it is who tells you you are beautiful, so you have to start with liking yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): There has always been a difference between what I like to look at and what I like to have for a partner and cuddle with. I like to look at women with natural big breasts, but I prefer to be with someone with smaller breasts. All of the women who I dated in the past were like 34B or 36B, except one. She was about a 38G based on seeing that bra size and I definitely preferred the smaller breasted ones. However, breast size is one of the least important things to me in choosing a partner. I like women who are relatively thin, but that is also less important than how we get along, the affection she shows to me and her overall personality. Even the sound of her voice is more important than her boobs, as I have to listen to that all the time.
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