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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My current boyfriend is not giving me any attention, we have been together for 3 months but the relationship is still with no direction.How can I make him jealous, so that he starts realising im there for him to come rushing back to me.... I plan to ignore his calls but i havent succeeded. I read somewhere that if you play hard to get to the hard to get person they start noticing you.... yesterday, i refused when he asked me to spend time with him, while he has not seen me for more than a week.This other friend of mine called while i was with him and I answered the call in a way that would make him suspicious there was something, he got jealous and asked me if i was seeing other guys, and I gave him a casual answer of "its just a friend who was supposed to visit me while he was on his way out.I want to also tell him that I am starting to see other guys. Its true I now accept invites to dates with other guys, even though its just fun.... do you think its a good idea to tell him such things. I want to act like i dont mind. I have been sitting him down telling him what my needs are in the relationship, but he has not put much effort into changing either. We always have to argue about him being too busy to spend time with me....So now I want to change and not ask him anymore of those irritating questions. Do you think he will realise I like him and commit....I also want to make sure I do not sleep with him
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reader, nologo  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 My opinion is that you are walking on thin ice.
Approach chosen by you only works with "any guy".
By definition "any guy" means average guy whose actions are predictable in typical situations.
If that is your boyfriend, why would he be not giving you any attention during 3 months?
He can dump you if you cheat on him, don't you think so?
"I read somewhere that if you play hard to get to the hard to get person they start noticing you"
I know lad lit is no place for reference, but it says boys should be more gushy and mushy.
If you didn't get my advice, please read above the lines.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 No, he won't. You're playing a game, and at this point, he's probably trying to forget you. You're mad that he's not spending time with you, and when he attempts to, you blow him off. If you told him that you're starting to see other guys, then he's got closure, and you can consider your relationship over.
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