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writes:Well I'm talking to these 2 great girls online and kind of like them both and well I don't know what to do.. On one hand, the one I talked to longer seems more ready to settle down while the other I'm not sure so much. One who seems a bit more ready to settle down is farther away from me being from overseas. while the other one lives in another state going to medschool. Then there is the age thing.. girl from overseas is 23 while girl in other state is 16 with me being 29. Things can never be so easy can they? Reply to this Question
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reader, levis501  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 be very careful of boths these girl thay may not be who thay say thay are and im all for the age thing as im married to an older man so i know what im talking about but come on 16 she is just a child and dosent know what she want for herself let alone who she wants to be with do you remember when you where 16 i bet you dident want to settle down i had my own house at 16 it was great but i dident want to settle down i had fun thats what its all about find someone where you live get to know the real them and take if from there i dont want to see you get hurt or worse get ripped off from someone on the internet im not saying everyone is like that but please be careful i hope this helps you
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (21 March 2008):
 heya.
well at the end of the day people can only guide you to a desicion the final desicion must come from your heart.
personally i do not think the 16yr old no matter how old she is will be serious enough or mature enough i am 16 i am mature however i know full well that a relationship with a 30year old wouldnt work out. this is only my opinion. i believe that if i was you i would be with the 23year old from overseas as distance means so litle when somebody means so much .
follow your heart good luck
chris
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