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writes:Perhaps this is an indication of desperation, so maybe someone can talk me out of it. I've been haunted by a sexy photo I saw in my boyfriend's wallet of my rival. Would it be awful of me to put in there a sexy photoof myself? Maybe it's a case of good girl, bad girl and I guess i'm the "good" one. He diverted to her sexually because he said he doesn't want to commit to me. But we have a deep emotional bond and he says I'm prettier! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Weither you want to accept it or not, he is not going to choose you as you allowed him to sleep with this other woman. You enabled him. Yes you did.
Because he thinks he is showing you respect and courtesy by informing you he can't be monogamous-he's still a self serving a hole who gives two craps about you or her.
I doubt she is hurting and I doubt she, herself if faithful. Who knows who she is sleeping with.
Why would you do this to yourself? Why would you invite this ignorant man into your life and honestly think that he is finally going to choose you?
He has two women giving him sex, and when he feels one is not being good to him or making him feel like a God, he ditches one and goes to the other.
You, yourself cannot even love yourself because no healthy, emotional stable woman who cares about herself and who knows to not sacrifice her happiness for the sake of a selfish a hole would even consider such an undesireable man.
Smarten up. Ditch him and find an honest, loving man of integrity who values you and will love and honor you SOLELY.
COUNSELLING PRONTO.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): This is the original question writer. Sorry to be so confusing, but it hurtsto think about this. She is my rival, because he was seeing both of us. He and I have been together for ten years and it was fabulous, and he's my entire heart! Hewanted to date her, but not lose me. But he only slept with HER sexuallyhence the sexy photo, but he has a big photo of me on the wall. I don't know what she thinks when she sees it. I want so badly to win him back sexually andto vanquish her away from him. Doesn't she care about me at all, not that sheknows me, but it seems she is oblivious. And him, well, he's trying to figure itout.Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): for starters he is not your boy freind if he is sleeping with someone else. He has her photo in his walet.... take the hint!!!!!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Why does he have a rival and what do you mean he diverted to her sexually? Is that code language for cheating?
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