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writes:hi am a 14 year old boy, I am so feed up with my life since my mum and dad broke up 9 years ago, i had been through the most terrible days of my life then last year ive moved with my dad and his wife meaning a step mum, bearing in mind that I am probably gonna get peace in my life but i was wrong it turned out to be worse. She keeps on bossing me around and very often used to to get in trouble with my dad because of her. now recently i started school and am doing very well so i used to come home late because i got after school lesson and now she came to tell me that she doesnt want me to live with them and that she's going to send me back to live with my grand parent where ive already lost everything, my school and they are old too.I've already planned my future and ive already started all my courses that i need, now I am going to lose everything... I am so stressed please help me ive got no idea what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): This is a tough one. You see my mom also had a step mom and her Dad never defended her when my mom really needed him. It seems that your dad is taking her side without giving you a chance. Talk to him if you can, explain to him that she should not be more important than you. I really hope this helps. If he thinks you are exaggerating then try getting evidence like CaringGuy said. After all people never notice how they act or the reactions they give at the moment but if they look back and remember right they realize how different things really are. Don't let your future be changed because of this selfish woman. No parent in the world should ever let their child go because of another person especially if she is not related to you. She is not your mother and you shouldn't have to take it. Good luck, I really hope that everything goes well for you.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Show him what you wrote here and how desperate you are to find a solution. Your dad should be the one who makes decisions for you, not your stepmother.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2010):
Talk to your Dad. If he can't see what she's going, then he's not that great. She can't send you back. And don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. She sounds like a vindictive cow.
Get some of this stuff on tape if you can. See if you can record it, then play it back to your Dad. He'll believe it that way.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Talk to your Dad, surely he has your best interests at heart, and wouldn't let his wife just ship you back to your grandparents. Get him alone and tell him how it makes you feel, i'm sure he'll understand.
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