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writes:Ok so I'm bisexual and I'm in love with this amazing girl. She really is just amazing in every way. But anyway, we've always seemed to have a bit of tension between us and I had noticed her to be different around me than with other people. Other people had noticed it too and commented how she seems to "hang" on my words, really respect me etc. now that's grand and I can obviously appreciate the fact that doesn't have to mean she feels anything but then it's the intense moments when we look in to each others eyes and you KNOW that isn't just friendliness. But anyway we're casual friends and as far as I know she's straight but the other night when we were going out I told her about a mutual friend who had been outed and she was outraged at the reception of it. She was extremely passionate about the fact that it's not a choice and how it's the way you're born and people should basically get a grip. She esscentially had a 3 minute pro-gay rant! Is it possible this girl is bisexual or something? I can't help but think she might be but I don't think I can differentiate between what is true and what I want to be true. Really need help with this!! Any advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, DiamondGirlx  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I dont think she is gay tbh, i think that the way she acts is just making your mind think she is. Some girls can flirt with other girls with out even realising they are doing it, truthfully i think shes just a friend wih strong views thats all.
Hey just an opinion may be wrong best of luck anyways :) D.Gx
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reader, desertrose899  +, writes (25 November 2009):
Right, so just because she's pro gay rights doesn't mean she is bisexual or gay. I'm very much pro gay yet I am neither. But if there are certain...instances (that might not be concrete)...where things do get out of the "friendship" bubble and more into the "romantic interest" bubble then I certainly think it you could drop a few hints. Maybe casually ask if she's ever thought about being in a relationship with someone with other sex or if she ever would. Try not to make anything blatant (you don't want to ruin your friendship by making her feel awkward) and I certainly wouldn't ask all your friends just because people talk and it could ruin your relationship with her. Hope that helps.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 okay, age group between 18 and 21, she may simply be fascinated with your 'alternate' life choices, she may have heard some negative comments about your life choices and be letting you know she doesnt view them the same way, she is young enough to be passionate about all sorts of issues, please dont read too much into her actions and words, you may ruin a lovely friendship.
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