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writes:Hi my names jemma. My other best friend has got a boyfriend and so have I, we have been with our boyfriends for the same amount of time, 7 months,But here's the thing, im falling out of love with my boy friend, and im falling in love with her boyfriend, I really like him and he's told me he likes me too, he and kala are constantley arguing becuase he cannot be bothered with her, and me and mike are always arguing because I'm falling out of love with him,When kala goes to the shop she asks carl (her bf) if he wants to go, and he says no, then she asks me and I also say no coz carl shakes his head as if to say no, So she goes on the long 30 minute or longer walk to asda and has a big shopping trip, and me and carl are left alone, we immediatly go into the living room and have a kiss and a cuddle on the couch, and we watch a film, but we won't and havnt slept with eachother yet, But when its just me and carl it feels so right, we get along great and he's told me that he thinks we might be soulmates - we have known each other for 10 years, and im now 20, so yeah,But when kala is in her house and me and carl are there, we take chances, like when she's goes to make dinner, me and carl go out side and spend time with each other, he tells me he loves me and I say it back, And even in front of kala he always takes chances, like when he lights up a fag when we are standing up , he asks me for a light and when I give it to him he pulls me really close to him and lights it up, we have done sexual things with eachother, but we havnt slept with eachother yet, Kala and my boyfriend matty even nearly walked in on me and carl doing sexual things,I really love him, I don't love matty, but I don't wanna loose kala as a mate, but I know if this comes out I will, but I can't help my feelings, and matty has cheated on me in the first 3 months and got another girl pregnant, but I stood by him, because I thought I loved him, I have tried to tell him, but he just doesn't have the time anymore, So here I am in bed with carl at his house, on my phone, writing this, Lying next to the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, the one I love, the one I want to marry and have children with, and yes tonight we had sex, so before u think I was lying when I said we havent, I wasn't because it was about half an hour ago, im looking at him now and I go tingly right the way down my body, from my head to my toes, so please what do I do? Thanks, jemma x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2009):
Jemma, you're going to get hurt, your friend is going to get hurt. Everyone is going to get hurt here and no one will gain anything. Friend's partners are not touchable. You have too much to lose. What if you find out he's nor for you? Then you'll have lost your friend for nothing. And what about your boyfriend? At least set him free to find someone else.
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reader, applebite8821  +, writes (21 September 2009):
 Girl, you sound naive to me.
But let me tell you, it is really very disrespectful to betray your friend..even enemies we don't sleep with their partners. Put yourself in her shoes, would you want your friend to do this behind your back?
How can you stand to be talking and laughing with your friend while at the back you are cheating and doing sexual stuff with her bf? I mean, can you actually sleep at night with that?
Well, either you choose one of them...your friend or her boyfriend. It doesn't justify still that your bf cheated on you. he cheated on you, surely you know how it feels to be cheated on so don't do this to others. Leave him if you don't love him anymore. Period.
Sorry, but you cannot find any aunt who will support you. No one will say to you "hey, you are doing good. Keep sleeping with your friends boyfriend behind her back". decide now what to do before its too late. I am sure it will explode in your face if you don't. And as one aunt here said, evryone will focus on you more and will hate you than this guy you are cheating with.
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reader, erica22 +, writes (21 September 2009):
 girl brows before hos your going to lose you friend either way and if he will cheat on her with you he will cheat on you with some one elsa dont trust him cause you dont really love him i can telll i been there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): i am the same age as you, and bros before hoes.
thats corny and silly but you will lose alot if you pursue this. your bestmate, your boyfriend and whoever else are close to them. if you think you can handle that then good for you.
if this guy carl likes you as much as you think then both of you will leave your partners and go out with eachother otherwise love he just wants a quick fondle to subsitute what he isn't getting in his current.
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