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writes:ok so i met this guy about a month ago at a college bar. i was dancing with my friends and he caught my attention as he was dancing with his friends so i popped a piece of gum in my mouth and approached him we started talking/dancing for about 10 mins and then we just danced and we both were into it for about 5 mins until our friends said we had to leave so i asked him for his number. 3 days later i msged him saying that this was my number but he didnt reply, i was giving it 3 days but my phone got cut off so i dont really know if he ever did, but last week i got a lil tipsy and msged him again and we started talking for the rest of the night and all of the next day, i asked him if he knew any good places downtown to go to and he told me this place he really likes so i said ill be sure to check it out and when i do he should come and he responded let me know when your going and if im free ill join......is that good? or is he not interested but trying to be nice?that was last sunday, we left off me saying i have to go get ready for tomorrow ill talk to you later have a good night, and him replying you toohe hasnt msged menow he comes across as a shy kinda nerdy guy, am i wasted my time? or should i still try?not this weekend but next weekend i was planning on going to that place and inviting him.pleasee let me know what you think it would be greatly appreciated:)guys let me know what you think!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe text msged me tonight:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe just talked about ourselves like school stuff like that, we both joked around a bit it wasnt boring....
and when we we're dancing he had his hands around my waist and he kept putting his face in the side of my neck like he wanted to kiss me but i didnt lol i just met the guy!
then his friend called him over first and he told me hold on 2 sec dont go anywhere so i didnt then my friend came up to me and said we have to go and then he came back to me and said im soo sorry but my friends wanna leave now and i said yeah mine too then i asked for his number and he went to hugg me and we also ended up pecking on the lips.....
by the way can you tell what kinda man he is by his friends cos they were really nerdy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe just talked about ourselves like school stuff like that, we both joked around a bit it wasnt boring....
and when we we're dancing he had his hands around my waist and he kept putting his face in the side of my neck like he wanted to kiss me but i didnt lol i just met the guy!
then his friend called him over first and he told me hold on 2 sec dont go anywhere so i didnt then my friend came up to me and said we have to go and then he came back to me and said im soo sorry but my friends wanna leave now and i said yeah mine too then i asked for his number and he went to hugg me and we also ended up pecking on the lips.....
by the way can you tell what kinda man he is by his friends cos they were really nerdy?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 I agree talk to him, invite him out, put the ball in HIS court. If he doesn't step up it most likely mean that he isn't that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Hard to say really. He might be shy... but he did dance with you.How was the convesation between you? Did he seem to enjoy it or was he sounding a bit bored?My advice is what the hell go ahead as invite him and see if he goes with you. If not id forget him though
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 December 2009):
Eh, I'm not a guy but you can always give it a try. What do you have to lose? When you decide to go just let him know and if he responds, he responds. If he doesn't respond then that's over with, you can delete his number, and not bother with him anymore. After that though, leave things up to him. It's okay to reciprocate, but if you guys do end up hanging out and having a good time, leave it up to him to call you. If he likes you he's gotta chase at least a little.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Well, in case he is really shy, invite him once and see if he responds. To be honest, he doesn't sound that interested, but he might just be shy. Invite him out once, if you get no reply or he doesn't show, don't bother with him again.
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