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He spends more time with his male friends than he does with me!

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Question - (5 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is it normal for your boyfriend to hang out with his friends 3 times a week after work without you? I know guys need time out with the boys alone sometimes but is 3 times a week to much? He only see's me twice a week on his days off. Thanks for any advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009):

I agree that it's different for every guy.

Myself I like to spend about 3 days a week with my friends. But I see her nearly every day. Even when I go out with my friends I usually see her during the day.

I think you should be sympathetic to how he feels about it b/c guy time is very important to men (for the most part). At the same time if it's that big of a problem for you talk to him about it and come to an agreement. As long as you're sympathetic to one another then you'll be able to work something out.

Good luck

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntI think that every guy is somewhat different in this regard. For instance, I've always been much more a best friend to my woman than to guys, but that's just me.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (5 December 2009):

Illithid agony auntRepeat question. Original is here:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-spends-2-3-night-a-week-with.html

Please see my original answer there.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (5 December 2009):

You asked this last night...

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