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My guy prefers his male friends company to mine

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Question - (5 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2009)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, *ola29 writes:

i just broke up with my bf after realizing hes too attached to his friends that he decided to NOT communicate with me for 4 days straight and it was right after my bday to top it off, he didnt get me anything, not even a rose.

I called 2 nights ago at 2 am and he was at some club event and he couldnt hear me so said ill call u later, i got mad and i called 2wice.. he didnt reply nor pick up. Waited the next day and he didnt even bother to call me back. so i just sent him a text,because i couldnt stand talking to him. He replied back saying "just to let you know, i was sorting shit out with one of my friends, and spending 2 days for his bday, and other bullshit remarks like i hope we can work it out blah blah.

im not replying imnot going to bother anymore. I cant believe he had the nerve to say i was spending time with this guy and its his bday. my bday was just a mere 2 days before this guy came along.

I know friendship is important, but the fact that they barely know eachother, and the fact that this friend is gay and has a crush on my bf. IS a major problem.

was i wrong to break it off?

and also should i delete him off my facebook? I dont want to be friends with him and i cant deal with getting upset everyweek because he's "busy".

sorrythis was long. thank u

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (5 December 2009):

Aunty BimBim agony auntDelete and block him from your facebook, and put it down to experience.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2009):

You were right! Delete him entirely and never bother with him again.

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