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writes:ok i am dating my boss first of all and has been awsome over the last few months about three weeks ago he had to go to mexico for a buisness trip every since he got back he has been completely diffrent, you know not calling as much we cant really talk at work cause he wants to keep this a secret so it makes it hard to talk to him about our relationship. He is 12 yrs older than me but it dosent bother me and he said the same about my age, I dont know if he is getting scared because he might be haveing more feelings for me or what the deal is. and it really sucks too cause here is this guy that i had a huge crush on for like a year and he finally asks me out you can imagine i was so damn happy and now i feel extremely sad and all i want is for this to work out. He also has a son the same age as mine and they get along great so my son has him a buddy along with mommy Please help what should I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): There could be any number of reasons for this from him no longer wanting to be with you to him being scared that you are getting closer. The only way you're going to find out is to speak to him about it.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Something sounds wrong in this story.
What to do depends on what you expect.
Do you wanna marry boss or maybe you want him to promote you?
Unfortunately, such things have little reference to real life.
"this guy that i had a huge crush on for like a year and he finally asks me out you can imagine i was so damn happy..."
I cannot tell you whether feelings of this guy toward you are genuine, but relationship with him may be closer to real life.
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