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female
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36-40,
*carlettxx
writes:Hi, I was going out with this guy for a little over 3 months, at the start he really liked me and got into a relationship with me straight away. I hit it off with his best mates too and they said it was so strange that he introduced me to them as his girlfriend because he never did before in the seven years they knew him. I thought this was a great sign and I really liked him. We went on holiday together a few days ago. I knew there was a problem as he told me a few weeks before he didn't know how he felt but we had a horrible time because he was really distant and just not nice towards me. No matter how much I liked him I knew he was treating me badly and I needed to break up with him and after ignoring my texts and phone calls I sent him a message the next day again and it ended in him dumping me over the phone because 'he didn't feel the same way about me any more'...That hurt me most. I tried my hardest and was a really good girlfriend and I got that back. There's no other woman involved as far as everyone knows and I just can't understand because he said I did nothing wrong. Can anyone shed light on this for me? Anyone been through a similar experience? I'm just crushed now because I feel it's because I wasn't good enough...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
No, it was nothing to do with you, it was all him. He move dto quickly for himself before he realized how he really felt. His friends' remark that he hadn't introduced a girlfriend before was a sign that he was moving to quickly for his own good. I am sorry you got hurt, but it wasn't you at all. It was him. He just wasn't ready or mature enough for a relationship. Find a good guy who is ready, and be a great girlfriend to him instead. Forget about this guy.
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