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writes:Hi. I am 21 and I have a girlfriend for the last 2 years. Here is somethng that is wrong. She is never ready for a physical relation and I have been craving for it. She says that it would be "cheating and ditching her parents if we do it before marriage". I love her but I am a young mail who works out 2 hours every day and does not masturbate. One day, we started fighting on the same issue. We both turned off our cell phones. I went to a whore house and fucked a call girl, but afterwards I felt ashamed of it. Now 4 months have passed since then. I am again thinking of doing so. Am I cheating her? Am I wrong? I am done with porn and masturbation. I do not like it anymore. Help me I don't want this to be like this. What should I do???????
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): You have it backwards... screwing a whore is cheating, looking at porn and beating off is not. Reverse the sequence...
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reader, Illithid +, writes (5 October 2009):
 If you had sex and it wasn't with your partner, you were cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Why dont you want to masterbate? I think if you did that more often it would release some of your pent up sexual frustration. Its a lot safer and healthier than going to a whore and you wont be cheating on your girlfriend. You need to respect how she feels and what she truly wants. If you cant do that, you shouldnt be together. Just try to find some different porn or masterbation techniques to help stimulate you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Yes, you are cheating. And yes, you're wrong. You're wrong because your girlfriend has stated how she feels about sex before marriage and you have carried on with her. If you can't wait for sex with your girlfriend, then you must split up with her and find another woman.
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