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writes:Im meeting a guy for last 15days and we have long conversations everyday. We dated twice and on first day he was holding my hand and was trying get closer to me.Even I enjoyed it but we never speak about any relation or he never said that he likes me neither I said. I am not sure if he thinks about me because he was telling me that we are not sure where we will be after few years. I dont know what to do? Should I speak to him about this that I like him or I dont think he is serious about this. what should I do? I cant stop thinking about him whole day, I wait for his call everyday. He is leaving this country so I am not sure if he want me to be part of his life in future. He dont speak to me about relationship but always tries to be closer to me.I dont know if I am in relationship with him. What to do, I am really confused please suggest how to handle this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, Isa123  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 The first months of dating are called the "honeymoon phase". You can never stop thinking about him, want to be with him all the time, etc...When I first dated my boyfriend, we decided we wanted to marry after the first week of dating ;). Lol, I know, silly right? Maybe because we have known each other for so long that everyone expected us to start dating. Only time is your true advice giver for this one. If you two are on the same page, then great! But don't take actual action on this one. It's great and strengthens relationships to talk about marriage, babies, etc, but don't take action on it. If you two still feel the same way in a few years, then take action!But now, enjoy NOW. Don't look into the future. Enjoy what you have and only time will tell.Good luck to you sweetie.
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reader, KiwiBina +, writes (18 April 2010):
Sweetie, this isn't a serious relationship. That is way too short of a time for it to be that serious, especially since he himself won't admit that it's a relationship.As you said, you yourself don't even know if it's a relationship. Perhaps he just wants someone to be close to and that is it. I suggest not getting too attatched to him, especially because he won't admit you're a couple and because he is supposed to be leaving the country soon.
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