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writes:Okay...I was seeing this girl kinda casually...We talked everyday and I even brought her to her graduation...The night of her graduation we both got really drunk...I went to bed early and she followed an hour later...I was completely passed out but the thing is im actually conscious in a black out...weird I know...When she came up to me she crawled into the bed with me...She cuddled up to me and said, and I quote, "I really like you"...That was grand the next day though we barely spoke...hungover...3 days later I may have let slip that I really like her too and she freaked out...I didn't understand and still don't...Now she wont speak to me at all...Can someone please shed some light on this matter
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you helped a bit
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 She may be freaked out because you heard and remembered her saying it. She was probably thinking that her casual drunken slip up was unheard by anyone yet liked the idea of kind-of telling you. Maybe once you acknowledged it she was taken off guard and embarrassed a little. I think she likes you but is having trouble getting over the initial shock of a) you hearing her and b) you liking her in return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2011): in my opinion, she might get freaked cuz she may feel that u only telling her that out of pity.. try woo her over again n gain her confidence that u really do like her..
The Realist has a good point about the pressure.. simply talk to her bout that.. it will be a good thing if that isnt a problem.. but if it is, then i would suggest u to juz be friendly to them..
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 I think that she does in fact like you but she only let it slip when she was drunk and thought you wouldn't notice. I don't know why she would freak out when she found out that you like her. That seems weird to me since I would think that she would be releived that you would say it first. Is there any pressure on her from her friends that you know of saying that she shouldn't like you. That is the first thing that came to my mind.
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