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writes: late sex loveri am 49 years old, about to menopause...i wonder why at this point in my life i'm so hot and always want to have sex with my husband....before i'm afraid of having sex always due to unwanted pregnancy but now we have sex every other day and still longing for more but ashame to tell my husband that i still want for more...so i end up doing the thing by myself
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): because women are in their sexual prime in their fourties.XxXx
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reader, indigo +, writes (27 August 2008):
The female body is programmed to make babies (just like the male body is help females make babies). When a woman is young, her uterus is fertile so she does not need so much to get her pregnant. As she grows older her body becomes less fertile so she has sex more often to compensate for it. Right now your libido is trying to squeeze the last of your fertility to make another baby. So your sex drive will continue to get higher, until one day you have your last period and your libido gives up.
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reader, Sweet as Honey +, writes (27 August 2008):
You're ashamed to tell your husband you want more?
I'm in the same boat as you, only I haven't got a husband. lol!
If I had, I think we'd spend the rest of our lives in bed.
Go and tell him you feel the need for more, and ask him if he could 'do that thing' for you. I guarantee you, he'll think all his Christmas's and birthday's have 'cum' all at once!!
Best of luck and enjoy it while you can.
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (27 August 2008):
Enjoy this time in your life and stop feeling so guilty about it! I'm sure your husband would love to satisfy you as many times as you want him to. But beware, once this stage passes, which unfortunately it does, and you feel less into sex, and he's had sex with you constantly, he'll be like a child who no longer can get tons of candy! So, maybe it's a good idea to satisfy yourself once in awhile, which, by the way, is perfectly fine fine fine to do!
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