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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a bisexual girl, who has always been physically attracted as well as emotionally to both sexes.When I am in relationships (no matter how I feel for the person) I always fantasise about the gender that they aren't and this hurts me greatly as I feel unfaithful and confused to the point where it ends in a break-up.I also watch a fair bit of pornography (recently) and fantasise about threesomes and group sex. I know there is nothing wrong with this and it is completely normal but it is not the way I personally want to live. I want to be fulfilled with one partner not two. I want these fantasies to go away, I am finding it difficult. Do you have any advice whatsoever that could help me out?I've never been one to judge on looks but lately I have been staring at girls breasts and judging the good one's from the bad one's, this sounds stupid but I feel horrible about it.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (25 May 2007):
Hi! My bisexual Friend; Wecome to double-trouble, Whereas a homosexual has to worry about keeping just one of the gender in his bed happy you have to worry about keeping both gender happy It's perfectly normal to be having sex with one body, and wishing it were someone else or even the opposite gender, in your case, That's what being Bisexual is all about What I see here is perhaps a loose tongue getting in the way of your relationships. No one wants to play second fiddle to our mind lovers.It's belittling to know that I'm willing to share my body with someone that I really care for,then only to find out that she is just using my body to pleasure her own Sexual Gratification. Being Bisexual doesn't mean that you cannot have a fulfilling relationship, but there will have to be an openness between who you choose to live with, regardless if he or she is of your own sexual persuasion, or not. As for your Sexual Fantasies Hang on to them,Baby. But don't spill the beans, in short, Leave those inner Lovers in your mind where they belong. Our Fantasies are a much needed part of our Sexual Arousal System that starts in our heads, and is acted out in our genitals As for female's breasts, All women do the same thing, but they don't make it quite as obviousas as us men do. Do hope that this will be of help to you, And God Bless.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 May 2007):
 A traditional monogamous relationship may simply not work for you. You may want to read up on polyamory or swingers as they will be able to accomodate your sexual oritentation.
Also, there are tons of support groups for bi-sexuals, and you will be able to meet others with similar orientations, and learn about how they structure the rules of their relationships. Each couple is different.
Perhaps, you might meet a bi-sexual man, and can find some satisfying relationship that way. I did an interview with a bisexual woman, and you can find it on youtube using the search words of Frank B Kermit bisexual woman.
-Frank B Kermit
franktalks.com
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