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writes:Help! Please. I'm fourteen years old, and I'm being sexually harassed by someone over the internet. I've blocked the person from my contacts list and everything, but he always finds a way. He knows every single website I go on and sends me naked pictures of him. He's also asked me to get naked on camera a lot, which I refused to do. I'm in a relationship with someone as well. This guy is sixteen, and I'm only fourteen. This is illegal. I'm going to call childline but I don't know what to do or say... Please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): No problem - glad to help!
Hope it all gets sorted out x x x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 Dear, you should call the Police. Don't worry about what to tell them: just mention that a man you don't know is sending you naked pictures of himself and knows what websites you visit. Exactly what you told us.
The man is a child molester. Nowadays, nearly every country has a group in charge of cybercrimes like this. This man must have planted some sort of spyware in your computer, and that is how he can send you pictures of him and know what websites you visit. Every time you are online, this little program sends him the information. If he used a keylogger, he may also know all of your passwords. So, what you must do first is NOT TO GO ONLINE. I'm sorry that you will only read this if you're online; I hope you don't read it from home. Turn the computer off, and call the Police. They will send a specialist who will find him. Cybercrime units can do pretty amazing things, believe me.
Also, once you have called the Police, tell the adults in your family. You can't handle this alone.
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reader, Cindy303  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 Best of luck with this. I think by contacting the authorities you are doing the right thing. Your uncles friend is a sick man and needs to be stopped. All the best, Cindy
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCindy303, I don't know this person. Not at all. He is a friend of my uncles, and he added me randomly. I have never met him before. The first night he talked to me it was all about sex and trying to make me get naked on the webcam. I blocked him that night and yet he still manages to find a way to talk to me. That is what scares me most. I'm being as careful as I can be. Thank you so much. Thank you thank you thank you.
Busy_babe, thank you as well. I'm going to call ChildLine in the morning and hopefully this will all be sorted out as soon as possible.
Male, anonymous reader, that sounds like a wonderful idea. Thank you. I laughed when I read that and thought how wonderful it would be to post his pictures on there. I will contact the police with the pictures. Not sure about the gay sites though. But thank you for the idea.
I really do appreciate all of this. Thank you.
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is what you do
1) Copy/duplicate all the pictures and texts that he has sent you
2) Contact the child people that you spoke about, tell them your story and give them "a copy" of the photos and texts.
3) Contact your local police in your area and tell tehm what is going on....give them a 'copy of pics and texts"
4) Contact 'his' local police by mail,fax or whathave you and tell them your story and give them a 'copy of pics and text messages' also
5) Tell your parents about whats going on
Now this is the last thing you do....those "Copies" of photos he sent you? Take the lst copies and find all teh GAY websites and post his dumb ass up on those sites.
Find all the GAY and TRANSSEXUAL websites that you can find and POST his name, his web address, his ip, his everything
and post it on the websites. Tell him to give you his real address and you will mail him some real naked pictures of yourself to him that way, but not thru the computer and when he gives you his real address....send him a bunch of gay magazines. Sign his ass up for gay magazines andhave them sent to his ass.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice and support! I appreciate it! I have told my boyfriend but there's nothing that he can do since the guy sending me the pictures lives a few hours away. He said we should contact the police but I want to call childline first. Thank you again.
xxx
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (4 April 2008):
What this man is doing is very wrong. You are a young girl and what is happening to you needs to be stopped. Do you know this person? Did you just meet online? This sort of story scares me so much because my daughter is nearly 11 and uses the computer. I am always terrified of who might be out there. You need to sit down and talk to either your parents, or maybe a teacher at school. Please do something now before this guy goes too far. You have done the right first step by coming here for some advice. Best wishes and PLEASE be careful. Cindy
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Yes - you need to stop him quickly. It'll be hard talking to someone else about it but it needs to be done. I guess you haven't told your parents yet then...it could help to tell them. Does your boyfriend know?
Call childline and just tell them what you've told us - tell them exactly whats happening and what this guy is doing.
I'm sorry this happened - but you'll be fine when you've called and this whole thing stops. x x x
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