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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm quite old fashioned when it comes to dating and in the early stages I normally leave it to the guy to initiate contact, because I think if you don't hear from them for a few days then they can't be that interested. I've noticed that recently though I've waited for a few days to hear from a guy and then I'll suddenly get a text saying 'you not talking' or 'you ignoring me' when I've not heard from them for a few days. What's this all about? It's not as though they've made contact either so why are they sending texts like that? I'm baffled!
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reader, Reebe +, writes (6 November 2008):
 Well in a way they did contact you first, I think it's their way of asking if your ok, and to get you to text them back, with out coming on strong.
It's good to have morals and values but you both have to show that your intersted.
If you don't make the effort then they won't bother either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): It's a two-way street. They're thinking the same as you. Old fashioned or not, if you don't show much interest, they're not likely to either. If they don't hear from you for a few days, they'll think you're not that interested either!
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 sometimes you would think the guy is the girl because they will be waiting for you to contact them first.
but you are doing the right thing by letting them contact you first.
train them how you want them to be trained. in other words don't get them use to you do all the calling/texting because then they will expect that.
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