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*ojo1
writes:Boy trouble!I really like this boy and I think he likes me to, but I don't want my heart to be broken again. If you were in this situation what would you do? Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, jojo1 +, writes (24 June 2007):
jojo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thx to all of you for the help
i will try to pluck up the courage and ask him as some of you said im so young thx you really helped jojo1
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 Life is full of risks lovely, I would say tell him how you feel. If he's as decent as you think he is, then it won't affect the relationship at all if he doesn't have the same feelings for you. If it does make him turn away by telling him then he's probably not the kind of guy you want to be with anyway.
I think you should tell him. I understand how hard it is to get involved with someone when you're scared of getting broken hearted again - I've been there and so have many people and many people are yet to experience the pain but you can't just miss out on opportunities because you were scared, you may regret it in future if you don't tell him because your scared. I think it's time to push the fears of being broken hearted aside and give it a go. As I said, you can decide on how decent he is from his reaction to you telling him.
Good luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): I'll reply you with "who suffers, feels, who feels is alive." You can't spend your time regretting suffering before it has even happened! It's an integrated part of life, anyway, and it helps us appreciate happiness more. Courage!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): Hi hun,
Your so young hun you cant live in fear of having your heart broken, You have to live and learn from the good and the bad in life, you cant hide away.
You have to get out there and enjoy yourself and face any heartaches when and if they come, be strong and be happy TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I would drop hints that you like him. Maybe get a friend to drop bigger hints that you may like him and wants to know if he likes you. Or you could ask him yourself.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 If I were you, I would take my chances, dear. Otherwise, true love will never come your way because you will keep your door closed. Just be careful.
I wish you good luck.
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