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writes:this boy who i really like keeps askin me to go to nightclubs with him but the thing is thats really not my scene as im not really into dance music and drinking and im also too young an im afraid i wont get in. but im afraid if i dont go with him he'l think im to hard to get and not like me as much. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Dont do something that you dont want to do. Ask him if you can do things that your both interested in.If he doesnt like you just because you wont go to nightclubs then hes not for you
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reader, stina  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Hello there,
I think you should suggest doing something other than going to the club. What about going some place where you can get to know each other better. Like going out to dinner and a movie, visiting a museum, going to lunch and taking a walk around town or something.
If all he wants to do is just go to clubs, are you sure you would like to be together with him? I think you'd get rather bored and frustrated really quickly in that relationship. But who knows, if you go, you might end up liking it... (I wouldn't recommend doing it as a first or second date, though. You want to feel comfortable and be yourself, not seem awkward and/or unhappy.)
Take care.
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reader, myp +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Tell him the truth. Ask him if hell do somethng you guys both enjoy. If he loses interest in you because you wont go to a nightclub than he isnt worth you or your time.
good luck
-Myesha
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): You do not have to do something you don't want to do. Just suggest he go to the nightclubs when he is with his friends and do something different when he is with you.
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