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writes:Im 17, and ive had sex with 6 different people. i recently met a guy who, for the firt time, respects girls who respect thereself / dont throw away their dignity. i do respect myself, and was young when these experiences took place - but i wont get into that. i fear that maybe i dont see the big deal about sex, and wonder if he'll think differently of me now that ive told him about each one. what do you think :\? Reply to this Question
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reader, happyface  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 You are doing the right thing,it pays to be honest,at least you are not keeping something from him, it's harder if he'll find out about this in the later part he will most probably think that you deceived him.,you are just being honest,and that's very good,i think if he really is the one for you he will surely accept you,everything of you.. he will fully accept you for what you are and what you're not, but if he can't accept that,well sorry to say but don't waste your time to him,he's not the one for you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2011):
If he does think differently, then he's not really the guy you're looking for. The right guy will accept your past no matter what. If this guy can't accept it, then he's not the one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): Well I'm afraid it is a possibility. A strong one.
He has no right to judge you for your past. But he has every right to decide you're not the right person for him because of your past. There is nothing wrong with him for feeling this way. You did have a choice to make that past in the first place. He had the same choices too and he chose differently.
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