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writes: I have no problem attracting guys, but have a huge problem keeping them. I get bored easily, because after a while they start losing interest in me and I don't get what I want, so I move to the next guy.I'm talking to this guy right now and I wanna keep him. What do I do to keep him interested in me? Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, MissMo +, writes (28 September 2005):
You said you have no problem attracting guys, which makes me believe that you're a fairly attractive woman - guys like what they see when they look at you. You say that eventually they lose interest. This may be because the only thing that was keeping you two together was a physical attraction. We're all looking for a partner that we connect with on an emotional and physical level. We want someone that we can talk to, that we can learn and grow from, etc. What are your interests and what are you passionate about? It's fine if this new guy doesn't share those same interests - he doesn't have to be your clone. But both of you should be willing to open your lives and share who you are with the other person. If he likes who you are, then great. If not, then it wasn't meant to be. You need to first have a good sense of who you are in order to be in a meaningful relationship, though. Good luck!
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