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writes: Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my friends. I am questioning this advice, can I really do that or will it just make things awkward if they say yes or no. Honestly, I can see this going a couple different ways in my head any advice would be greatly appericated. Reply to this Question
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reader, honesty  +, writes (8 May 2007):
noooo just wait until you find the right person it will mean so much to you and you only lose your virginity once i know your worried due to your age but you will find someone sooner than you think
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reader, confused718  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 NOWAY! sex is supposed to be with the guy you love. not just some random guy.you want your special night to be remeberable, not just cause you have to. make it with the guy you LOVE!!!!!!
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reader, xoTrineyxo +, writes (6 May 2007):
 I would say no you shouldnt just sleep with your friend.
Sex is supposed to be something that is witht he special person you love... so wait for her...
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reader, miss fit +, writes (4 May 2007):
your mate is a commit ment phobic loser. this is not good idea, it is utter crap.you want your first time to be with some one special. if you follow his advice you'll end up with up a memory of a detached sexual experience, a girl who thinks you are a total loser and syphilis. get my flow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): Do it only when you feel ready and with the right person, you know you always remember your first kiss, or the first time you rode a bike without training wheels, well this is no diffeent, you will always remember, make it a memory worth looking back on. Dont waste a passionate moment on a friend it should be shared with someone specail.
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reader, 19BFL  +, writes (4 May 2007):
In my opinion i would suggest you keep looking for the right one to loose your virginity to.
I have been in this situation and went through with it. All though it was enjoyable and i did not feel uncomfortable at the time it desroyed our friendship.
You should not feel pressured to get rid of this as it is something you will never have again! And we all seam to love what we have lost in the end.
Im sure you will find someone who you can trust very soon!
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