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I'm 19 and have been accused of being a pedophile! What should I do?

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Question - (19 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 19 and i was havin a threesome with 2 17 year old twins.their parents were supposed to be pickin up their brother at the airport but the flight got canceled so they came back to the house to find me havin sex with their daughters in the living room. their dad is chargin me 4 bein a petafile because im over 18 and there under 18. what should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):

Get a lawyer because it's statutory rape or something that it shouldn't be. I agree w/ the other answers make it clear that you being sued won't stop te girls sleeping around, if they weren't virgins before then make sure he knows that!

I think maybe he has a right to thump you but court is too far.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):

Get a lawyer.

And tell their father that ruining your life won't stop his daughters from screwing guys.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntIn most states the age to consent is 16, some are 17 and a few are 18. If you're in a state where the age is 16 or 17 he can't do anything legal against you. If the age is 18, that's definitely not pedophilia, it's statutory rape. I don't think many courts will charge a 19 year old for having sex with a 17 year old because 17 is so close to 18 and you're not much older. That was really stupid to do though, not because of the age, but having sex with twins in their parents house? Not smart.

Check ages here:

http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/qanda/blageofconsentchart.htm

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A female reader, romany United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2010):

romany agony auntI dint realise you had to be 18 in the States, its 16 here in the UK.

I totally agree with Jmtmj, I dont believe your a paedo either, but i would have fed your balls to the dog if i'd caught you in my living room with my daughter.

I hope this all works out ok for you, I think the daughters must be a promiscuous pair, and its obvious you never took their innocence, hopefully a good lawyer will be able to clear your name.

Good Luck.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (19 June 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntOuch... Well I'd get myself a lawyer for a start...

I can't help but feel for the parents though and I think I'd react the same way, if not worse, if I found some dude plowing my two daughters in my house.

You're not a paedophile, but they want your blood dude. Hopefully the judge will see that.

Best of luck for what is sure to be a rough patch ahead.

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