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female
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30-35,
*mandanash
writes:My boyfriend has a lot of problems with himself, self esteem and just confidence. He is a very attractive guy though, with a very happy go lucky and out going personality. He gets lots of attention from other girls. Him and I are on a break right now as he told me 3 weeks ago he doesn't think he's right for me, and he thinks i deserve someone better. He lied to me about a trip we were supposed to take. He said he didn't think he was going to go trip anymore, so there was no point in us going anymore. Turns out he lied, and hes going anyway, and meeting up one of his good friends thats a girl there. He's also hurt me in other ways in the past little while. He says he hasn't put 100% of himself in the relationship since day 1. Obviously he's not too broken up about all this since he's making lots of plans with other girls from what I know. I truly care about him, he told me I was gonna be girl he was gonna marry, he asked me to never leave him. But does it seem like this relationship should be over? Or is there any chance of saving anything?
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reader, psom  +, writes (19 June 2010):
If you do not have trust what else is there. Love is trust. Mess ups here and there sure. If you cannot trust him for good reasons and hes running off with other girls on your supposed to be vacation. Time to go. This is of course with only hearing your side of the story. Hope all works out for you.
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reader, romany  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 At this moment, No, not a chance of saving it, he wants to meet up with this 'friend' on his trip and he is giving you the.......your too good for me....speech.
Maybe you are the type of girl he wants to settle down with, but he aint ready to settle down.
He's tried his best to let you down lightly, but you've pushed and analysed every courting comment, until you've found some hope that isn't really there, let him go, if its meant to be, it will be, but dont wait around for him.
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