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writes:Hi there i'm 17 year old male looking for a raltionship... the problem is as i'm only 17 i can't go to bars to meet women.I'm a really shy guy so i was wondering if anyone could recommend any places i can meet girls?also i have a full time job working 9-6 (weekdays) so i have even less chance of meeting people.Please help me i'm very depressed
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Okay places to meet girls..
In work? Depends where you work though tbh..
You could go into your city center with some friends on a saturday =D
Here in Manchester...if your like..alternative... we go a place called the urbis gardens =D
Uhm..If your Mosher or Pubnk or Emo or something, go somewhere there are skaters there are always girls nearby
If your just casual then just go somewhere on a saturday or sunday and flort
and if your like defined chav ro scally...go to a park or place alot of young people hang out at night and get talking
Or you could go to a youth club =D x
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (17 October 2007):
 you can meet women any time you want. we're everywhere! its just getting into a scenario where you can approach one. the biggest advice i can give you is us girls love a compliment! if you approach a girl and tell her you just wanted to introduce yourself, even if it doesnt go anywhere you will have made her day. so try not to be too shy, bite the bullet and say hi to that cute girl who works in your local coffee shop, or who you see at the bus stop. yep it will probably be a embarrassing 2 minutes when you first say something but you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.good luckbrookex
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 October 2007):
 To be honest bars and clubs are probably not the best places to meet people anyway. Invariable people who have had alot to drink tend not to be themselves. The most likely of places is at the work place, or college or university. If you have any interests or hobbies, like at the gym after work is a good one, or doing an evening class, at least if you meet someone at these places you have got something in common. the likellhood is you will meet your perfect girl when your not even looking for her, it invariably happens this way.All the best and good luck
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 At your age you should be able to meet women who work at the same place you do. Or attend the same university you do. If you don't go to college, you might want to consider it -- it will help you achieve a better job down the road, plus it's a great place to meet women who are doing the same thing -- getting a better education. Even if all you can do is enroll in a couple of classes (not a full-blown college schedule) you will still have the chancer to meet women there. Other possibilities are church if you go. Or if you have hobbies, such as roller-blading, skate-boarding, art, music -- all places where you might meet females who enjoy doing the same things. Then there's always coffee shops, laundro-mats and places of business you shop for fun, food, or entertainment. I wish you the best!
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