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writes:Hi i know this is going to sound really stupid and normaly im ok with it but theres this boy i like and he likes me im 16 and hes 20 i dont know why but i think hes too old for me or just wanting sex my mates all think i should go for it but i still dont know wat do u think please help xxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): hey hey..i just read your question and girl im going through the exact same problem as you....i really like this guy thats 20 and im 16!!!we havent met but have known each other sice last year and really like each other and wanna meet. now i've been so lost lately for my sis isnt happy with me being with him for she says all a 20 year old guy wants is sex..and also ive got the problem of long distance... i really like him but dont know if i must go for it... and you know what from reading all these and thinking..what have i got to lose we really like each other and are perfect for each other..and hey if you really like him!!!! GO FOR IT!!!and for the whole sex thing if he really likes you and you actually mean something to him, when you start the relationship talk to him bout it and let him know that you not ready for sex now and if he really does like you he'll stay with you and wil fully respect you and be fine with it.. if he's not than im sorry to say he's just not worth it and move on...there's a way better guy out there for you!!well i wish you the best and hope it all works out!!!dont worry you wont be ALONE!:-)
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (23 March 2007):
 Dear xxemilyxx,
If you really like this guy then go for it and be with him, but just watch and see how he acts with you if he is constily trying to do things with you that you dont like or dont feel comfortable tell him that you are not ready for that and if he stops with out a problem then he is not with you for sex but if you tell him to stop and he says things to get you to do it then you know he is in it for sex, and if thats the case then leave him, dont give into him right away wait a while befor you do anything, you dont have to have sex with him in a month or 2 yrs its when your ready and if he cant wait for you then dont worrie about him he is not worth your time...i hope i helped a little and good luck follow your heart hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007):
Go out with him but make sure you don't do anything too sexual with him, take things carefully and slowly. Just because you are his girlfriend doesn't mean you have to do sexual things with him. By going out with him and not having sex with him you'll quickly see what his motives are! Remember that a boyfriend who wants to be with you for the right reasons will do everything he can to make you feel special, understood and the best girl in his world. Good luck!
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reader, mum2be +, writes (19 March 2007):
I am in the same situation, cept' i am a year younger... i am 15, he is 19... and he does not just want sex, so if you and him would be compatible, then go for it!!!
If however, you do not feel comfortable going with him, then don't get with him.
Simple!
all the best
xxx
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