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30-35,
*ouonlyliveonce
writes: Help! i've been with my boyfriend for over a year and i really do love him. the problem is that i only see him at the weekends, in between i think there is another guy i'm beginning to like. we work at the same place so i see him all the time. i'm not sure if it's because i shouldn't like him, or just the excitement of something new. i feel bad hiding this, but i don't want to break up with my boyfriend. any advice?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, superbunny +, writes (12 September 2007):
I was kind of in a similar position as you + I stuck it out with my long distance boy + it worked! You can make anything work if you want it too. :] It might just be the thrill of something new - but that's not a crime. Hope everything works out okay. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): This is typical for a person your age. Perfectly normal. Finding someone cute or interesting is not cheating.
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reader, messedupbigtime +, writes (12 September 2007):
well first of all about a year or so ago i was in this exact situation. i kept this awful secret from the man i loved and it tore us apart. i ended up acting on the feelings for my co worker and it didnt turn out good. i then had to beg my x for his forgiveness.
so my opinion, if you really love your boy, stick it out! true love is hard to find.
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