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writes:i am 15 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months i love him more thank anything and i have been thinking about having sex with him but i dont want to get caught what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, chihuahua1274  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 DONT DO IT you want the first time to be romantic and it isnt going to be youre gonna have a really worried feeling worried about someone finding you just ask yourself these questons and reconsider it ALL
1)What would my parents do to me?
2) what would everyone think of me?
3)is tggis gonna be one of the most romantic days of my life?
4)if i am caught what will happen?
5)If i am caught and i get in trouble what will my bf do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): I remember I lost my virginity at 15, and I was ready for it. But I kept it a secret.
Just make sure you're ready for it though. You only get one first time, and make sure it's special and that you won't regret it.
You seem quite worried about not getting caught, and rightly so. Maybe you could do it in either of your houses when parents are out?
Don't like, go out and try and find a private place outside to do it, there can be some pretty sick people out there who might find you or something.
Lastly, always make sure you have contrecpetion!
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reader, A Cappella +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Well, first, please reconsider. You only get your "first time" once, and in the back of a car or other alternative isn't great for building romance or memories. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do; your body your rules!
Second, please make sure you're safe. You need to make sure you have birth control and protection from disease (condoms, etc.) Also, included in safe: your location needs to be safe. There are some sickos out there who might take advantage of a young couple if they find you in the middle of something.
Finally, do you have to go all the way? There's a lot of fun stops on the way to intercourse that you can play with. This is a journey, not a destination. Please make sure you're not in a hurry to get there.
Relationships at 15 don't tend to be very permanent (ask any 30-year-old around you if they even know where their first love is now). If you want to increase the chance that you'll still be with the person you lose your virginity to, you might want to wait until you've been together longer before you give it up.
I'm not sure I gave you the advice you're looking for, and I'm sorry about that. I'm just remembering me when I was your age, and wishing someone had told me what I'm telling you. Good luck hon.
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