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writes:I want to finally get over this guy, he's 15, and has just lost his virginity to a girl he's been seeing for a while now. I've been in love with him for two years now, and I'm sick of having my heart broken by him. He only pays me attention when he wants it. I'm 14, and all the guys around me that I fancy aren't interested, or I just don't fancy them. I can't quite pin point why I love him, I just know that I do. I can't explain it I just know that I do. I'm probably going to get lots of responses saying that I'm too young to know love, and I know I'm not. I know the difference between love and lust. I need to get over him for the sake of myself, yet after waiting for over a year, and trying everything else, I still can't. PLEASE HELP!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, chachacha +, writes (8 March 2007):
When a guy treats you like that, he is not worthy of you. This guy uses you and then takes actions which hurt you.
You have to learn to respect yourself, to know that you are worth more than this.
If you feel that you still love a guy who is hurting you, then you have the potential to become a battered wife - someone who stays in love with someone who hurts them. Do you want to grow up into a relationship like that?
No, forget this guy, tell yourself how he doesn't care about you and hurts you, and look for someone who treats you well, who shows you love, and likes being with you.
Don't you want to be in love with someone like that instead?
Try hating this guy instead - that usually works.
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Sweetie, love can be so painful when not returned.
You need to be strong and allow yourself to move on as by now this boy would have committed to you if he really liked you.
Some people have to much choice and he may be one of them. Don't let him take advantage of you.
Even though it breaks your heart, you need to accept that he is with someone else and it is unlikely to change.
He may have taken your heart but you still have your self respect and pride, do not let him take that away from you.
Keep busy and socialize more with other people, try not to see him for a while as you do not need the constant reminder.
Lots of hugs
Angel of Love
xxx
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 When you fall in love with someone and they dont feel the same it really hurts and it doesnt matter what age you are. This guy clearly is involved with someone else and only pays you attention when he wants to. You probably feel that you heart will break and you spent a year waiting for him. Nothing has happened so it is clearly time to move on. This is hard for you to do but you will have to find some way to get over him. It is his loss but do you really want to waste any more time on someone who doesnt love you back.
Good luck
Aunty t
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